enough....

tama na, sobra na....
kung minsan kahit anong haba ng iyong pasensya ay dumarating ka talaga sa point na feeling mo sobrang pang aabuso na ang dinaranas mo at kailangan mo na itong tuldukan.

Opo kahit saan po ay may nang aabuso, kahit saan po basta may nagpapaabuso ay may mga taong mananamantala dito. Hindi po bago sa akin ang maabuso, kahit po sabihin nating na strong din ang personality ko, minsan po ay hinahabaan ko talaga ang pasensya ko more than the usual. Ito ang naging dahilan kung kaya may mga taong akala ay okey lang sa akin na masigaw sigawan. Isa po sa pinakaayaw ko ay ang masigawan ng wala sa lugar. Isa o dalawang beses ay pwede kong sikmurain ito pero pag inulit ulit mo na... ibang usapan na ito.

last week po ay hindi ko inaasahang gagamitin ko ang salitang enough sa isang taong akala mo ay pinagpala ng langit.

Noong bago pa lang kasi ako dito sa trabaho ko, nagkaroon ng di magandang pangyayari sa amin ng mga kasama ko, since i am the most senior staff, i feel like it is my responsibility to report it to the management. These resulted to my being harassed by a senior manager who was involved in the incident. He caught me alone when I was to have lunch and confronted me bout the incident. What he did next was beyond my picture of an older man that I always treat with respect, he shouted at me while we were talking and worst he pointed to my being new in the company and that he said that I have no rights to act that way since I was only a small employee(using his right words).

The second instance is when because I need to raise a non-conformity report when he left an incident without action for seven months. The audit is coming so to protect myself, I wrote a memo to him reminding him of the need to address the issue. He stormed to my office and right there and then accused me of being illogical. \he shuted at me again and started throwing profanities at me. I kept myself composed because I know that behind the wall the project director was sitting. One of my department mate came out to tell him to lower his voice. It was only then that he went out but after giving me a threatening look.

Ang ikatlo at huling insidente is when i followed up on one of our supplies from him. He knew three days before that we were already running out f supplies and informed my officemate. Since I was directly in charge with the supply my friend adviced him to inform me. I dont know why he wont talk to me, and worse will not me inform bout our scarcity of supply. Instead he wrote my friend and asked his advice. My friend forwarded me his mail and again adviced him to inform me.

The following day, i was passing by his office and decided to check the status of supply. After he said that still, we are having problem, I told him that when another prblem of this nature happens in the future he should infom me first so that we can address it professionally.

After hearing the word, he again started raising his voice... I was startled by his actions but decided this is it... right there and then I told him... "dont ever raise your voice on me again, I am tired of your abuses. I didn't tell you you were unprofessinal but if it came to you as that, then it is up to you and left his office to attend to a waiting task.

Pagkatapos nun, I was informed by our department coordinator na nagsumbong na pala sya at sabi nya magrereport daw sya na sinigawan ko sya. I told her the story and I said na hindi ako natatakot sa mga accusations nya, he better prove it or ako ang magrereklamo laban sa kanya because I have witnesses sa pang aabuso nya.

Ayoko ko pong makipag away pero ayoko ring maabuso, pero kung meron man ulit na aabuso sa akin ay di ko na pakikitaan ng same level of tolerance baka mamisinterpret na submissive ako at abusuhin ng husto.

PS..

Sa ngayon ay inaantay ko po ang greivance notice ko.... hehehehe